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Some of the most creative, successful people
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Judith Lederman and Candida Fink, M.D. These suggestions work well in the state
where creativity & thinking out of the box is identifiable. This is not
intended to treat other phases of mania such as rage, or extreme irritability
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would be nice to do that someday?. You may even want to converse further about
that impulsive desire?again: listen and learn, while helping her attend to the
responsibilities of the situation at hand.
4) Meet some of the desire
while lowering the intensity for her. If he just has to go to a professional
ball game (now!), try going through his card collection to see which players and
positions he is most interested in. OR get on the computer and begin a card
collection for him?let him help pick out the cards and teams. Have someone in
the family take 20-60 minutes out to play that sport with him now. After energy
has been released, maybe go to blockbuster and get a video where that sport is
the theme.
The process to help a child deal with STRONG impulses is time
consuming. Two points of reality are:
a) There really isn?t any way
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stay with a theme of desire while channeling it reasonably. And this is one of
our heart?s desires .
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